Monday, May 19, 2014

Girls are...





They say that girls are annoying, loud, loquacious, crazy, sensitive, sulky, hard to please, finicky, a cry baby etc.
But did you try to know them really, really, really well?
Did you try to look what's behind those attitudes?
Did you try to understand her?
Or not?....

You think they're annoying when they won't stop asking you questions about your whereabouts. What you're doing as of the moment, whom you're with, if you already eat your breakfast/lunch/dinner. If you're already home or not. If they ask you those questions and wont stop asking you until you answer her questions (sometimes they'll doubt your answers) , you'll get really annoyed about her. You'll think that she's so paranoid. You'll get mad at her because she annoys the hell out of you.
But have it ever crossed your mind that she asks you those questions because she cares for you? That she thinks about you all the time?

You think that sometimes, they're too sensitive. One little wrong move, one wrong word, one broken promise (example you're 5 mins late on you're date) , they'll get mad that easily. You'll think that she's so sulky. But did you ever think that the reason why she's that sensitive is because she wants to be cuddled by you?

You think that they're hard to please, that they wont be satisfied in small gifts. That they want extravagant things. But the truth is, anything that comes from you, especially those gifts that you put all your effort to make, pleases her so much. Everything that comes from you, even the little ones makes her smile.

Yes they're loud, they're  annoying, they're sensitive but they only want what's best for their loved ones. The'y know how to love unconditionally.

They're are hard to understand, but if you really love her you'll do anything to understand her.

P.S

When they're having their monthly visitors, they're so moody. One minute she's smiling and with a glimpse of an eye she's already mad. She's hard to understand during those days. She gets mad easily. But try to understand her, because she's having a hard time. There are times that it pains her so much. Try to imagine that every month of their lives they're experiencing those hard days. Would you like to be in their shoes first before you understand her?

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